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I disagree. If she is invited back to the group that she absolutely does not see herself joining, go to the pref party with an open mind. Pref has changed many a mind.
If she still can not see herself in this chapter AT ALL, do NOT list it on her MRABA. Yes, it may reduce her chances as a quota addition to other groups, but I feel that it is a risk she may want to take. You would be surprised to see the number of COBs that are offered at Alabama second semester from many groups due to graduation and attrition for other reasons like grades and finances.
IMO, better to keep options open rather than be bound to a house for a whole year that she will not join.
Alabama does still have an upperclass quota so if she goes bidless she still has a decent chance during recruitment 2018 plus there will be a colonization next fall as well (Sigma Kappa).
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