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smile101
Honey, there is no reason to make a decision right away. Why don't you wait and actually establish some friendships with the other new members and actives? That's what its all about anyway. And if you're having a hard time adjusting call your new member educator and let her know. You are not the only woman who has experienced this, it can be overwhelming, all the singing, chanting and smiling can obscure the reality of being in a sorority. It's all the little things that make the experience invaluable, like having someone to call and talk with, to study with, to grow up with during the 4 extremely formative years of college. The rituals that we go through each year serve as amazing touchstones and markers of your personal growth, the experience is really worth it.
So, why don't you just take a deep breath and ask a new member that you seem to get a long with to lunch. Just take that simple action and see how it goes.
Let us in on how things develop for you.
Fraternally,
violets
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