I'm just a little bitter

She was VERY disappointed that she got cut first round, we had discussed what could and should happen as far as legacies. She knew she may get cut in later rounds. I think I was more upset than her b/c I didn't and don't think they handled it correctly.
She kept going through rush because she hadn't been cut by her favorite yet, she preffed her favorite and her other legacy (which she didn't like). I tried to tell her to suicide if she would only be happy in the favorite, but her Rho Chi told her she had less of a chance for a bid....She didn't listen to me or Mom so she got her bid wasn't happy and declined.
I have since been told that this chapter basically operates on its own rules. I don't have any more legacies (at this point) so I'll just have a bad taste in my mouth for that chapter and move on. As for my sister, there is always Alumnae initiation if she chooses