I don't want to QFP FSUZeta's entire post - but I want to say this to carolinepnm: please study her words carefully. She has hit all the major points and done so in a very positive, loving, yet truthful way.
Insight into your own behavior is a huge benchmark of being an adult. It comes easily to some. Others, not so much. Still others, never. What FSUZeta gave you is a gift. Please use it wisely.
And I am rooting for you. Do the hard work now, prepare the best you can, and I sincerely hope that you will find what we have all found: a lifetime of panhellenic friendships. We are more alike than different. The majority of my close friends are sorority alumnae (NPC and NPHC, mostly). We share a common experience and a bond. I want that for you, too.
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