I'm not sure if chapters would like or dislike a member who was married and had a child. Most likly Panhellenic regualtions say that you have to attend that school and that's probably it. The NPC sororities will have more strict regualtions than Panhellenic.
Well, I wanted to respond to NPC being called convervative and closed minded. If you really think about it, college chapters might find it difficult having a married member because of a conflict of interests. I'm not saying it couldn't be done or it hasn't but, chapters want to utilize its members to the fullest and someone who has obligations to a husband and baby may not be able to give as much as a chapter requires.
It all boils down to time and image. Chapters may feel if no one else has a married member than they wouldn't be too fast to jump on the oppurtunity.
Last year a married Potential New Member went through recruitment and did not get a bid then or afterward during snap or COB. But that is here and I don't know where you are or how your campus is. I just wanted to say that chapters can have real reasons to not accept a married member.
I would call ASA HQ and ask, they should be very helpful!
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