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You girls . . .
Go for it and have fun! If you have a good time with the guy for a day, a week, a month, a year or whatever that is a period of time that your life was enriched by someone's prescence.
I'll tell you all a secret: almost all your relationships will fail.
There, the cat's out of the bag now.
Also, it would be a gift for most people if their final long term relationship would break-up. How many people do we all know that are unhappy? Or in stale relationship? A living death?
Even for people that eliminate others for arbitrary reasons, age, education, income etc . . . the relationships they hold out for fail also.
Good.
How does this apply here?
Hindsight is 20/20 and stupid.
Future sight is almost blind and stupid.
So you never know going into a relationship how its going to work out. NEVER. Although you do know that it probably won't work.
You rarely know coming out of a relationship what went wrong. We block it. Or we don't know how to judge it.
So we blame the easy stuff. It didn't work out because one was smarter, or better educated, difference in wage earning, age, maturity blah blah blah.
So AGDPrincess70, if you do it and it doesn't work out you will say the age difference was a mistake, it was a bad call. That might not be the reason but it will jump out at you.
Great and if he were the same age or older and things didn't work out you might just say he was immature . . . for the same behavioral patterns.
But you will never know unless you try sincerely.
So go for it ! Have fun! Enjoy!
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