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I'm not a parent (yet) but I hope that I will have the strength to stand back and let my hypothetical future children make their own decisions. Obviously I'd be pleased if a daughter of mine joins AEPhi, and she'll know she's a legacy, but I will try not to push it - just because I was at home there doesn't mean she will be. As for my hypothetical future son, I have opinions about several fraternities at my alma mater, but he may rush at a different school, and in any case, 20+ years will have gone by... things change.
I know of a woman who is a sorority alum and who would only let her daughters apply to colleges where her sorority had a chapter. IMO, this is over the top. (btw, none of them joined her sorority!)
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