i guess the most important thing i've learned is that i'm not alone. we tend to get caught up in our chapter, and forget that we are just one person out of millions of actives and alums. it's nice to know that other chapters have the same problems as ours, and that they work them out just as we do. it's also put me into contact with other sigma kappas, who i normally wouldn't have any contact with at all. though they're in different chapters we share that "mystic bond" and it just makes me smile