TAWONDA!! Let's face it girls, I'm older than you, and I have more insurance.
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Rudey - yes we have had that experience. There were chapters that we would click with - in particular Slippery Rock, which was chartered a month before us, so we were almost like twins. There were other chapters however, that we were kinda like "are we REALLY sisters?" They felt the same about us, I'm sure.
I wish that there could be more fun things for chapters to do, not just meetings and such, to give more opportunities to bond. Also once you get to be an alum, it lessens somewhat. I don't think that's cool though, that your consultant would act like he wanted to get away from the other guys. That definitely isn't the way to build inter-chapter respect.