[James]

As Lauraduv said . . . Find out which Nationals have rules about that in advance . . .

Does anyone know which Nationals have that rule?

Is the rule a hold over from the old days? Because it seems almost discriminatory.

Edited to add: If no one on here knows just fire off an email to an officer from each national at your school. Don't mention the school you want to Rush at, just ask about the rule.

You may not want to talk to your Greek Advisor about it. Its been my experience that sometimes information has a habit of "leaking" from Greek Affairs offices, if only because students will often work there and administrators can be careless what they say around them.

Again. If you go to the sororties that have no such National Policy, I wouldn't mention being married.