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You don't even know that if you had ranked the other chapter #1, that you would have actually gotten a bid from them. For all you know, you could have ranked them #1 and ended up in the house you're already in.
Recruitment is an intense emotional process, but I really do believe PNM's end up where they are meant to be. Something about your experience with your chapter made you rank them 1st when you filled out your pref card...go with that!!
Instead of stalking the other chapter on Instagram, get together with your fellow new members to eat, study, hang out at the house, etc. You have to put effort into your membership to get something out of it- and that's the truth for ALL chapters on every campus!
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