Thank you all again. Thetalady, she and I both agree that there's something that she's either doing or missing that's turning people off. She's decided to ask one of her friends from high school to please be brutally honest with her to see if there's something she can work on. In the meantime, she has other clubs on campus that she's interested in joining, plus there's the whole academic thing...
She's been through a lot, but I'm really proud of how well she's learned to go with the flow and move on. She's grown up quite a bit. As a mom, I think that's all that you can hope for. She may look at spring, but she's not sure, and she won't keep going back if it's apparent that she's not welcome.