I'm glad that she decided to go back to the house that invited her back. That's a mature decision on a day when I'm sure she was hurt and upset. I hope it works out for her because all it takes is one house to get a bid! Unfortunately, no one can give you or her answers as to why the other houses released her.
As for grandmothers, each sorority has its own criteria for which relationships are considered legacies. Most, but not all, houses do include grandmothers, but you would need to research her house's policy to know if your daughter was considered one or not. I know that Chi Omega and Tri Delta do not consider granddaughters to be legacies.
It's unclear by your post - is the one house that invited her back the legacy house? If it is - and you confirm that she is considered a legacy - grandma should email the rec to the chapter's recruitment VP ASAP just to make sure they do receive one for her and know that she is a legacy.
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