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I don't think it's too early to approach her now but I think this sounds like an in person conversation. Are you guys talking/hanging out? If you are then gauge the situation and bring it up when you feel like the time is right. If not then maybe ask her to grab a coffee/tea/frozen yogurt and again bring it up when you feel like the timing is right.
Not sure what kind of relationship you have with your friend but speaking for myself... I wouldn't feel uncomfortable if a good friend of mine told me that she was thinking about going through recruitment again and wanted to talk about that with me.
At the same time, I hope that you give other chapters a chance too. All NPC sororities offer very similar experiences and if what you want is to be a sorority woman then you will consider what you can do to improve your chances for the future...like keeping up your good grades, being involved with a couple of organizations on campus, and getting to know sorority women for friendship and so that they can (hopefully) help their other sisters notice your attributes during recruitment.
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