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Originally Posted by EmmyS
Thanks for the reply. I probably shouldn't have included all of her accomplishments in my question as that that had nothing to do with what I wanted to know. I'm a teacher so I'm well aware that there are 100s of others who are just as accomplished as her. Maybe she should have gone on to the one sorority that offered her a bid but that's irrelevant now. If she filled out a form to officially drop, does that make her not eligible for COB?
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It's not irrelevant. Your daughter needs to realize she probably gave up her one chance to join a sorority. She made an immature decision that she did not feel comfortable there based on meeting a handful of actives during recruitment - and more likely, she judged the chapter based on gossip/ tent talk and did not give them a fair chance. That's a pretty important life lesson to learn!
Your daughter is eligible for COB but chances are the house that she turned down will be the one doing COB. She should let her active friends know that she would be interested in COB should their chapters have slots open, but don't count on it.