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I am sorry that she is hurting. She absolutely should NOT say anything to any sorority member or ask any questions of them. They won't really have any idea what happened. Chapters have recruitment committees who handle the invitations, etc. the general membership never knows what goes on in committee. If she wants to, talking to the Greek Adviser might offer some insights and that should be the only person she talks with about this on campus.
That conversation might inform whether she tries COB now or in the spring, if that is available. The GA can tell her how to go about that process on her campus.
Keep in mind that she rejected the one offer she had. That won't set well and could follow her to COB. I don't know how many groups are on her campus but word does spread. I'm sorry she chose to do that. It isn't a wise thing to do and I'm sure she was counseled against doing it.
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