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I think you have done all you can do here...you have tried to contact her and work with her in a polite manner...and she's ignoring you...and obviously neither of you can complete the site without the other person. So, your website is at a standstill.
This isn't fair for the rest of the group, and the argument between you two could potentially prevent you from recruiting new girls and have a bad impact on your rush.
In AST, we have a saying of how things should be done...and that's "In the best interest of the sorority". It really sucks, because sometimes it means giving up your own pride or opinoin for the better of the whole group, but that's the point of a greek house, working together to achieve something bigger than yourself.
I would suggest, since you have already attempted to handle this on your own, that you call your chapter advisor. He/She can serve as a mediator. And what about the Chapter President? She should have the authority to make a decision which will determine how the site will be put up in time for rush.
I hope this helps...I can see that you have an annoying situation you are going through right now.
Just remember that despite what this other sister says, the people you care about in the sorority will know that you were the one who did all the work for the website, because you'll tell them. And when someone else contradicts that, those are the women who will come to your defense and set the record straight that YOU did it, and the other girl just paid a few bucks to get the credit. Everyone will find out the truth sooner or later.
Love, Adrienne
Assistant Chapter Advisor, Delta Nu of Alpha Sigma Tau
Alpha Sigma Tau National Academics Coordinator
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