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Hang in there.
There's nothing wrong with you. Don't worry about why you were cut. It doesn't matter why they cut you. It really doesn't. Groups have to cut down their lists, and some groups have to make severe cuts. That has nothing to do with you. They may have really liked you, thought you would make a fine sister, but couldn't invite you back because of a whole bunch of reasons. (You are a legacy. You aren't a legacy. You are not in a sport and we need more athletes this year. You are in a sport and we have too many athletes. Whatever.)
By the end of recruitment, everybody is cut from all of the houses, except for the ones that they pref at. (1-3 at UGA?) And then they are cut again, down to one. Panhel only allows one bid per person. Everybody is going to get cut the same as you, sooner or later in this process.
Focus on the groups that you have left on your list. Give them a chance. Don't even think about who cut you. Think about the great opportunities you have with these other groups.
And don't even worry about what people say about "top houses" or "top tier." It's ridiculous high school stuff based on stereotypes. You're not in high school anymore, so don't let other people's high school behavior affect how you think and feel. Every house has terrific women in it, and every house has people who will be your lifelong friends.
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