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Don't say that. It sounds terrible.
You need to take the decision to withdraw only on yourself. You need to say "They were great. I was immature and wasn't ready to make a commitment yet. I really regret not being ready and I think I learned a lot about myself and I am ready to make that commitment now."
And you need to think long and hard about whether you really want to do this. Being a sister to other women means that you make a commitment to be a sister even when it's not fun and when you're not getting along. It's not just about parties and cute sweatshirts. It takes an adjustment period to make those lifelong friendships. It won't be different in a new sorority. You aren't going to be bonded to the group at first. You are not going along with every single other sister, and the person you don't get along with might end up being your big. You might not find your BFF in your sorority until you've been there for a year or more. If you don't think it's worth the money if you have to wait, then maybe it's not for you. (And that's okay. It's not for everyone.)
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