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[QUOTE=Tinkerbell1;2409236] Stop being rude to women who share their disappointment about not getting into a desired house. If girls want to be part of the chapter that has the prettiest or most stylish girls, they can shoot for WHICHEVER chapter they want because in the end, all groups develop a sisterhood and have fun experiences together, including the rich or pretty girls. And if someone gets cut from the chapter of choice, maybe you all can give them tips for getting in in other ways instead being hurt and rude.
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I think everyone else has made really good points that I don't need to repeat, but I have to say that I don't think anyone on here is "rude" to girls who get cut from chapters of their choice. When young women (or their moms or whoever) come on here asking for advice, they need to be prepared to accept it, not fish around for the answer they WANT to hear. I also think most of the women on here give their advice and thoughts precisely because they want PNMs to join WHICHEVER chapter they want; most of us had wonderful sorority experiences, many of us are still actively involved in our alumnae groups and know what recruitment is like at certain schools, and since we are being asked, we are trying to help so that other young women can have similar experiences to what we had. What good would it do any of us to be rude? Granted, there are times that people come on here looking to start something, and they may deserve a rude response, but that is very rare. And the great thing about this and every other website is, if you don't want to look at it, don't.
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