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Originally posted by Hootie
you don't put guys infront of friends... think it's wise at a younger age to value the friendships over the relationships (at times) because generally the relationships come and go, but friends remain the same....... Like if he's going out with friends and you're sitting at home alone...take advantage of this alone time to go out with YOUR friends.
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Two things...FIRST of all, Like I said before, I don't think ditching your friends for your significant other is cool. But why does it have to be either or? Why can't it be both? It's not so hard to see your buddies AND not completely ignore the person you're with. What is the point of committing to someone if they would always rather see their friends than you. If you can't make time for your bf/gf, you shouldn't waste their time and ask them to be committed to you. Yah fine, totally ditching your friends and expecting them to wait around for you when/if your relationship crumbles is unreasonable. So why exactly is it fair to completely ditch your bf/gf and expect THEM to wait around? We're not talking about a girl who sees her boyfriend 6 days a week and is whining about needing more here!
Also, as for taking advantage of her time alone.... It's not like she needs to take advantage of the rare moments she has to herself. She has all the time alone she wants. He's never around. That's the problem.