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I agree this sounds very one sided. Reading between the lines it sounds like the chapter tried to work with her but she had no interest in complying with early requests. In other words, the first visit to Personnel could have been "we don't mind you having a Tinder account, but we prefer that you do so without wearing our letters in your profile."
She refused.
Second trip to Personnel: We are requesting that you take down the photo of you in letters from your profile.
She refuses and gets mouthy. There are small consequences from the chapter.
She decides to take a stand on this.
The chapter doesn't budge.
After several attempts at reconciling the situation she is given an ultimatum, to which she continues to refuse to take the picture down.
Termination.
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I don't know whether I would agree with the original position by the sorority. I am happily married and have been since long before Tender came on the scene so am honestly not familiar with it and what it may or may not imply. However, I see this like everything else in Greek membership: sometimes there will be policies that we may not agree with, but for the sake of the whole we give up a few personal liberties.
When a request that is easy to accommodate is presented, just follow the request. This is all so dumb. There is NO WAY they terminated her on her first ever visit to Personnel, nor the first ever request to change the photo. She refused to comply and wrote her own ending.
Now mommy went to the media. Utterly ridiculous all the way around. No wonder she is such a baby who insists on getting her way.
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