by the way, your credentials sound great, but the most important factor during rush is who you are as a girl, and how well you get along with the existing group. it's more important that they really like you--and want to hang out with you--than it is that you have a super-high gpa. keep your grades and involvement high, but next time around, try to connect better with the girls you talk to during rush parties. try to put THEM at ease during conversation. be genuine, and if you are shy, this is the time to get over it. part of the 'rush game' is making a good first impression, so don't come across as aloof or judgmental, just because you're quiet.
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