oh, and as a p.s. to my story - I was just joking with one of my sisters the other day (who I SWEAR I never met until part of the way through my junior year when I started hanging out at the house between classes - so she had to be one of the last people I met, or I just didn't remember her at all). I told her I was glad I didn't join sooner, because if I would've spent any more time hanging out with her, god only knows what kind of trouble I would've gotten into. She ended up being one of my closest friends ever, even though we didn't really talk all that much until the end of her senior year/my junior year. I'm a big believer that things work out how theyre supposed to in the end, so I'm sure your daughter will end up where she feels at home, whether she ends up going greek or not.