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re are two different things I want to stess here.
My sister and her best friend of NINE years recently went there seperate ways because her friend put this creep infront of their friendship...and made in blatently clear that whenever the boyfriend caused issues with my sister, she took his side.
Now the two of them broke up and the boyfriend came to my sister begging for her to hang out with her former bestfriend because she needs a good influence. My sister said straight up, NO...you don't put guys infront of friends.
So to make a long story short, I think it's wise at a younger age to value the friendships over the relationships (at times) because generally the relationships come and go, but friends remain the same.
On the same token, do you get along with his friends? Or is this strictly he wants some guys night out time? If you can chill and handle the buds make an effort to hang out with them. Chances are if they don't like you he won't either...it's just the way the cookie crumbles.
FURTHERMORE, you shouldn't wait around on him. Like if he's going out with friends and you're sitting at home alone...take advantage of this alone time to go out with YOUR friends. DUDE, I once was young and waiting around on a boy and he's gone but my friends are still here...thankfully. I ditched out on them so many times that summer and when we finally broke up they didn't feel too terribly bad for me.
So think about things and don't be so worried if his priorities lie elsewhere.
Hootie
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