[33girl]

Being unbiased has nothing to do with being unaffiliated.

If EVERY sister - rho gamma or not - can't sincerely say "this girl is not what we want/we are not what she wants, but I think she would be a great sister elsewhere" then your Greek community needs some unity workshops.

I guess I think of rush differently - not as a "competition" to "win" pnms, but as putting your best and truest self forward so it's easy for women to find their home. If you are so weak of will that knowing your PX is an ABC makes you want to go ABC when you hated them otherwise, your problems are just beginning! Would "out" PXs tip some girls to their sorority? Probably, but if there's an even member of PXs from each group, so what? I'm sure some girls decide to put ASA down because they come home from pref, turn on tv, see a show with someone wearing a red and white sweater and take it as a sign. Har.