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Oh WOW. I thought you were seriously describing my ex boyfreind for a second. Although the guys make a good point that it is possible that his friends came first, frankly, I say who gives a s&!t. Just because they came first doesn't mean that they come first in EVERY descision he makes. That is like NEVER allowing change to enter his life. Does he NEVER make new freinds? ALL of his friends cannot have come first is my point. Does everything that was in his life before he met you take the plave above you? I'm sure that mowing his grandpa's lawn or something came before you, but would he blow that off to spend time with you? Chances are, he probably would. Its all about what he WANTs. It sounds like its not even about who came first, but about what he WANTS. He would RATHER dick around with his friends then spend ONE QUALITY weekend with you. Its not because they came first on the calendar, its because they come first in his HEAD. It sounds to me like he is too immature to be in this relationship. I'm not saying he should drop everything and spend all of his time with you, but if you are not factored into his decision-making EVER, then one has to wonder why you are together in the first place. Seven months along says (to me) that there should be SOME level of committment there.
**Sorry for the rant, but I REALLY feel psusensei and what she's is going through
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