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Originally posted by KSig RC
You two are young, and most likely not inordinately 'serious' due to that fact. He's known his friends for a long time, most likely, and those are extremely well-established relationships....If you expect to be his number-one priority, this obviously will not work for you - but that might be how he is.
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First of all, just because his friends are his number one priority doesn't mean you shouldn't be a priority AT ALL. It's hard enough not living close to the person you're with. But on the occasions where he comes to see you, you should be the most important thing because he sees his friends at his school all the time. The fact is that you have every right to expect, and dare I say demand that when he's physically with you, at your school, you are the number one priority. Like I said, it doesn't sound like you're just not the first priority. It sounds like you're barely on the radar. And after only 7 months together, that's not fair to you. You're still supposed to be in the honeymoon period where you still look forward to being with eachother whenever you can.
7 months just isn't enough time for him to be comfortable enough in the relationship to seat you in second chair. You should be a high priority. Why can't you be AS important to him as his friends rather than less so or more so? Fine, accept you won't be more important as his friends. But should you really have to settle for less????
Just my 2 cents