Actually, its much easier to bring it up with guys . . . Most guys say they used to be in great shape lol. So its easier to motivate them.
I have never brought it up with a girl except in the context of goals and training.
I got a complaint once when I was talking with a girl over training routines (she was actually quite thin and older) when she was telling me her problem areas and I agreed that i could see them.
But if there is no way to bring up a dialougue about these types of issues people are going to have needless physical problems and mental anguish.
I have no good answer.
I agree with the whole choosing a healthier dinner place, but believe it or not, you will find that most people that are overwieght do not consistantly over eat at all.
In fact they often eat less than their thinner friends. I am not talking about the morbidly overweight of course.
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