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I'm currently a sophomore about to start second semester and I feel so isolated and left out in my chapter sometimes. My university has chapter houses, so every member, except a few older members who opt out, live in the same house.

This semester I got put in...the only singe room in the entire house. Which honestly just feels like another message that I'm always left out. I have people that I talk to in the house, but no one ever seeks me out of really considers me. I'm pretty good friends with my littles and my big, but other than that I'm just kinda ignored.

We have a generally really close sisterhood, which is what makes it suck when I feel like such an outsider. I'm never usually outright ignored, but certain things like I never get any notice for doing things like helping sisters study, or editing papers or anything. I feel bad complaining, because some girls I've read about have it worse but I want to know what to do to fix it. People who know me know I can be outgoing, but when I'm always ignored I tent to get more quiet because obviously what I'm saying isn't important to them. There's no one I can really talk to, but some tips would be helpful. I just want to know how to get girls to like me more than just not hating me, you know?