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Our chapter does give the NM's choice a lot of weight. What is also considered is how active the potential "big" is within the chapter. If someone wants to be a big but does not come around or participate in chapter activities, they automatically go to the bottom of the list. How well will they help a NM adapt to chapter life if they are not coming over themselves. Though it seems unfair for some to get twins and others to get no one, there is usually more to the story than the OP might have included.
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