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That happened to my best friend. Her and I were rush counselors (Rho Chis) together and the girl she wanted as her little was one of my gals (we were in diff sororities). She wanted my friend as well. I also encouraged this nurturing because my friend is made of awesome (still is) & never had a little. The powers that be felt my BFF was feeling burnt out and didn't select her to be the big. It was heart-breaking to my friend (she would have been a wonderful big) when this girl would wink and side-eye that my BFF had given her pre-big sis gifts and hints. After a year, the little (who didn't get my friend) transferred and affiliated to a different chapter in the state (UGA). No, I def don't think that was the cause, but it probably didn't help. I think it was a case of a nice smalltown girl going to a uni in a big city was too much. Yes, UGA is a 'bigger' campus area wise, but not much bigger student number-wise and it's daunting to any smaller town person to go to school in downtown Atlanta.
Lesson is that go with the little's preference and the top choice's willingness. You can't go wrong.
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