The problem comesin when people feel like they are losing control. Jordan knows/believes that she had control over Amamda. That's why she keeps calling her "weak" and all those other things. Like the episode where she was trying to make Amanda apologize for making all that noise late at night with Candace. (Personally, it didn't seem like they were load, but if I were in the house, it may have been different
) I remember her saying somehting like, "tearing people down to build them back up." WTF?
How are you going to tear your "friend" down just for the sake of showing "who's the boss?"
Jordan is just pissed that Amanda isn't all in her face, doing what she says. Now she is crying and talking about she's losing her. Whatever! You are BRAGGING to your friends/big sisters talking about she wouldn't have even joined had it not been for you! Now it's a standing joke that comes up every week. Some friend... or better yet, "sister."