I was reading your post. My chapter went through something similar but we DID NOT extend an invitation to this woman.
How on earth did this girl receive a bid when her inappropriate behavior was witnessed by several chapter members including your advisors? Not to get into your business, but what happened when you discussed her behavior at vote time? Is there something about this girl that is so overwhelming that her behavior could be overlooked? Just wondering
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