[GtownGirl98]

since I was the 33rd lady initated into my chapter, there were no set traditions or hazing. We would joke to our advisors that we wanted to be hazed because we didn't do anything. I am not advocating hazing, I am just asking what isn't hazing?

Okay I grant you that I might feel bad if I came in last but as a responsible sisterhood, you would try to follow the 14 Pearl program and have a varity of activities that allow for all different personalities and talents. That is what is different about our program then other programs I have seen, in that we give a varity of options to the NMs to obtain their 14 Pearls. Also in my chapter I don't believe that it is manditory that one finishes the program, but those that do are praised for their good work.

I think that it is truly stupid the state of what is and isn't hazing now of days. I think that as the next generation of Advisors and volunteers that we can work on just how much is too much. Though I don't know if this is possible or not without a lot of alumnea support.