I do feel bad about the situation, but I do think everything happens for a reason. SO go and try, you never know! Being a member of a sorority isn't just about the college years, you will have an awesome time as an alumna too!
I think many chapters have different by-laws about membership invitations. If a chapter has voted you down they may feel obligated to do it again in order to respect the sisters who came before them. My Panhellenic has no authority about individual chapter membership selection.
My only concern is that you are past the "usual" age of a new member...I'm not saying no chapter has EVER taken someone as a junior, but it helps many Potential New Members if they can give numerous years to a chapter. But maybe they are looking for a wiser member to take on some leadership quickly!
Good Luck!
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