it sounds like when your friend asked you to come to the informal rush event, she was speaking for herself and not on behalf of the whole sorority. her asking you if you wanted to come was a personal expression of her liking you, not an expression that the whole group thought you'd make a good member. so i guess don't feel betrayed by the house because you got cut in informal rush. one person's opinion of a rushee doesn't go all that far, at least in many voting systems. even if that one friend loves you to death, the rest of the group might not feel as intensely. i don't think it sounds like that house was dirty rushing you or leading you on... they probably didn't even know you had been invited to the event until you showed up. it sounds like a decision that your friend made on her own to invite you... not like the rush committee sat around thinking about who they most wanted to get, and your name came up.
[This message has been edited by twinstars (edited January 31, 2001).]
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