I think looks always matter, but being a model and being well grommed are two different things. A sorority woman must be able to represent their chapter and sorority to the best of her ability and yes how you look matters. Now, everyone's taste varies and if you are in a cookie cutter chapter then that's what you think is attractive, but let's be honest how many "perfect" type Potential New Members exsist?
I do not agree that East Carolina University is all about looks, every chapter has its face girls and that's to be expected, but all looks and no brains makes for a weak chapter.
The strongest on our campus is VERY well rounded beacuse it shows they value more than the superficial things you can offer and I think that appeals to everyone, PNMs more so than others, but that's who counts.
I think the more attractive girls may have it easier, but that's the same for the guys, they are concerned also.
But it all works and that's what matters, I think being Greek is a great learning experience beacuse the sooner we learn that what we do reflects others, the better. And looks will also play into it when you look for a job after college.
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