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Old 11-04-2015, 01:04 PM
clemsongirl clemsongirl is offline
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Originally Posted by robinseggblue View Post
So what you're saying is that you didn't find a "connection" at the FOUR houses who actually gave you a chance and wanted to get to know you better?

That's one of your problems. You disregarded 1/3 of the houses on your campus.

If you are going to rush again, you need an attitude adjustment.
Seconded. Some girls walk into a house and find that deep, profound connection they've always longed for at the beginning of the first party, but it doesn't usually happen that way. Even if that doesn't occur at every house-or if it does and then that house cuts you-you have to pick yourself up and give the houses that did invite you back another look.

Especially if those houses are the ones doing informal in the spring, you'll have to reset your expectations from "I LOOOVE these girls and I have to be their sister!!1!" to "I can see myself spending every day with these girls and being comfortable around them".
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