[jenidallas]

I was (somewhat) in your shoes and thought about dropping before initiation. My difference was that I was in the middle of the group that was behaving like the mean girls.

I realize in retrospect that every one of us was feeling the way you are - and the cliquey behavior was a way of trying to force a bond that none of us felt yet - but all of us thought we should be magically feeling.

Once the "this is how it should feel" pressure dies down, you'll see that girls settle into their own routines. Sadly it seems that every pledge class I see ha one of those cliques... but know that there are lots of girls who just want a true friend and sister wherever they can find one.

If you stick it out, you'll find plenty of them.