[DubaiSis]

Sometimes girls in this situation behave the way they THINK they are supposed to behave, and some of them may have decided the Mean Girls thing is how sorority girls are. Some of them will stay that way forever (the stereotype exists for a reason), but many of the others will settle into a normal routine. You are most definitely NOT going to be good friends with all of your sisters, so try to let that go. If you think this is a serious concern and you feel like the exclusion extends beyond the pledge class, then talk to the president. Now is the time to address those concerns, not after initiation.

We had a mantra KROP - Keep Rushing Those Pledges - (yes, it will have changed with the dropping of the word) that was incredibly important. Because this is absolutely common and you don't want to lose that great member just because she's not the Princess of Quitealot.