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Originally posted by Swamp Thang
My thing is that for every example, there's an equal counter-example. I have a female friend, right now, who has a daughter that the biological father doesn't know about... because she didn't want him to know about it ON PURPOSE...
She robbed him of fatherhood by omission. No Man can rob a Woman of Motherhood by omission cause alllll Women knooow that the child is hers and the pregnancy can't be hid FROM HER 
I'm not a violent Man.. but if an old girlfriend showed up at my doorstep with a 8-12 year old walking mini-me child of mine, I'd take amazing restraint on my part not to kill her.. She's robbed me of: seeing my child born, naming my child, seeing all the 1st for the child (steps, teeth, words, etc)...
And she would've robbed the child of having a relationship with my side of the child's family.
The shame is that all of these contemporary moral issues that we've touched on have taken/are taking place...
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I'm not violent either... in most cases. But all I ask is that I have a chance to be part of any child I help create's life. That's all I'm asking for... I don't think that is TOO much considering you got these idiots out here who don't do sh-- for the six or eight kids they know about (and I have seen and heard about it with my own eyes and ears). That's why I say my piece up front and if that means I don't sleep with the woman then so be it.
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Originally posted by thesweetstone
Some of y'all are so self righteous.
Maybe THOU should get more infomation about the people you sleep with so you will know where they stand on abortion. That way you won't be surprised.
Maybe THOU should try to understand that it maybe your baby but it is still her body. You can't beat my ass about my own body. WTF!
My number one question is why is THOU having pre martial sex anyway? Since you are such a moral MAN![/QOUTE]
I am not GOD, self righteous or perfect, I am a MAN........
and most men have two brains and sometimes one thinks for the other one at THE WRONG TIME [some of ya'll in the situation now as I type this]. I didn't say that every time I have sex (or if I have sex at all) I am right cause I don't have no ring on this finger. That's why I DO tell the women my rules upfront (I'm repeating that for this section) so it don't be no miscommunications/misunderstandings and my personal favorite NO EXCUSES for why she cannot abort MY/
OUR BABY (be it in her body or not). But on a personal note, it doesn't get that far with me because I don't pick folks at random to sleep with [again, some of ya'll is in the situation now as I type this].
The why I may or may not be having (or have had) pre martial sex is another topic and sense I am A MAN, that will only be discussed with you when or if you become my woman cause some things just don't go outside the bedroom and should stay between the two people involved...
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