Hi Angel541982,
First off I would just like to say that I am not in a sorority. I had planned on rushing this spring, but because of grades i decided to wait until the fall. I am a sophomore now and will be a junior this fall. I definitely agree with iamsohappythatiama, you should really go for it again! It is unfortunate that they made a mistake with your GPA- but atleast it went up higher (i wish they would do that for mine too!
) Anyway, what I am trying to say is that it really does depend on your school so if i were you- i would find out what most sororities do on pledging sophomores or older. If they have no problem with it, then you should give it another chance- especially since you had that mix up with your grades. At my school- they do not care how old you are, or what year you are. I think that is wonderful because to be honest with you- that shouldnt matter anyway. If they see that you would be a great asset to their sisterhood- then i bet they would rather have you be a part of their sorority for two years, than just let you go because you're a sophomore and only have two years left. My friend is going through rush right now and she is a SENIOR- and one sorority already gave her a bid!! That was her second choice, so she is still waiting on her first choice- so you see, it really depends on your school! To comment on what twinstars said- i am entitled to my own opinion and i think she was terribly discouraging, you did say that on the last day you had a few houses that were interested in you- so maybe you will click with them more next time and they will surely remember you as well!! It could be that your second and third choice cut you because of grades. I know they are really strict when it comes to grades for formal rush. I want you to have a good attitude about it and rush next time! I will hopefully be rushing this fall as well! I wish you the greatest of luck, and let us know what your decision turns out to be!
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