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Some parents my try and influence their children, but they need to remember that the system is mutal selection and even IF their child's choice matched the parents' choice, there is no guarantee that the group in question would offer him/her a bid.
If your parents try to influence you, take it all in stride, thank them for the advice and move forward on your own.
It is vitally important that you tell your parents you are planning on participating in recruitment if they will be paying your dues, etc. The only time I would recommend that you not tell your parents of your plans is if you are financing your sorority experience 100% on your own.
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Barbara
Moderator: Recruitment & ZTA
Tallahassee APH
Use the Search, play nice, and don't make me come in there.
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