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Originally posted by phikappapsiman
This is SO Bill Clintonish of me, but...
Question to the women...
Do you consider "having sex" to mean JUST the traditional baby making way (don't want to get graphic here), or are other sexual acts considered sex as well? The reason that I ask is because I once dated a woman who was "saving herself" until marriage, but she did most evertything else! And she was very good at it (and no, it wasn't Monica!). Yet she considers herself a "virgin". So, is she? 
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We call a person like that a "That kind of virgin" at EMU. There are a LOT of girls who will give blow jobs to a row of fraternity guys but don't think they are sluts b/c they aren't actually having sex, which I actually think is just dumb not only for the obvious reasons, but you aren't getting anything out of it-C'mon!!! As for the question at hand; I was 17 and it was with this guy who was in my little group of friends and all my other friends thought he was cute and I got him! I was so proud of myself until I found out he still had a girlfriend when he told me they broke up (oh so little we know at 17). After that I didn't have sex again until I was with my boyfriend who I was with for 4 years (he was a virgin when we got together). I think all you have to do about having little experience is just be like "listen, I wanted to be smart about it. It's not that I was too nasty to sleep with (I'm sure your adorable) or anything like that. I just wanted to wait until it felt right" I'm sure if anyone questions it, that is a sufficient answer and if someone is enough of a jerk to give you crap about it, then you don't need that kind of drama.