Jules!
Best of luck at your rush dinner tonight!
I would ask questions like the following:
*Why did you join DZ?
*What makes this place/these girls special to you?
*How have you grown as a person through your DZ experience/what do you think you've learned from being a DZ so far?
You just want to show that you are truly interested in these girls for who they are, and not how great their parties are, how beautiful their house is, etc. (Although the parties and the big houses are impressive, to be sure!) You want to show that you are at ease there--that can see yourself fitting in there, with those girls as your new sisters.
I always tell people to try to see themselves in their pajamas in front of all the girls in the house--I mean, it's one thing to love the chapter and the girls when you're all dressed up and looking your best, but would you feel comfortable lounging on the floor, in front of a tv, late at night in your pajamas?
I wish you the best of luck! Keep us posted on how things turn out.
Panhellenically,
imsohappythatiama
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Oh, Kappa Kappa Kappa Gamma,
I'm so happy that I am a
Kappa Kappa Kappa Gamma,
Nobody knows . . . how
happy I am!
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