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Old 10-21-2015, 04:30 AM
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Originally Posted by kooklaa View Post

I got a bid from a house that recolonized at my school a few years ago. I accepted my bid, but still didn't feel like I really fit in with the chapter. I actually learned that houses that are new on my campus aren't allowed to cut PNMs for a certain number of years after they are established, which honestly made me feel like I only got a bid from that house because they gave bids to everyone since they couldn't cut.

This is 100% NOT TRUE.

And yes, the fact that you dropped out of a chapter after getting a bid that many women would have been ecstatic to have, for a REALLY ridiculous reason, absolutely hurt your rush in the fall. It may have negatively affected your friend's standing in her sorority as well.

(People...when I rail against that "next primary recruitment" business re open bids...this is exactly the sort of thing I'm talking about. )

We can't predict your chances at OSU. Keep an open mind to ALL the chapters.
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