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Originally Posted by clemsongirl
If you were expected to wear "pumps, pearls, and pastels" and felt that you couldn't do it when everyone else was, this might not be the school or sorority scene for you. Do you still think you'll be at this school next year considering your family situation?
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Those are good questions. Also, does the dress code for recruitment match what members tend to wear around campus? Or, was this the suggested code for recruitment only, to give women some guidance?
If this was just for recruitment, I wouldn't worry that you're compromising your identity or preferred clothing choices by conforming with the dress code. There are lots of time in life when we're expected to dress a certain way for a certain event (funeral, wedding, job interview, etc.). That doesn't mean we are expected to dress that way in our day-to-day lives.