[KSUViolet06]

Situations like these can feel like Eggshell City.

Nothing your kid does (or doesn't do) is going to make her feel better. Whether she talks about it, or never says a word about it in her presence, roommate is still going to be upset.

I would not go out of my way to rub it in her face or gloat.

However, I also don't recommend censoring your every conversation and leaving out something fun that happened in a conversation because you think your roommate will have a meltdown.

Ex: If asked what I'm doing this weekend, I would not leave out "Well we get initiated this weekend and we have a sleepover!" because I was asked what I was doing and I am telling you what's going on.

I didn't say "OMG WE GET INITIATED THIS WEEKEND AND YOU WON'T BE THERE!!!!!" If someone is going to get upset about simple conversation, nothing you can do is going to change it.

See also: I am not sure about going out of your way to do a non-Greek thing (that you would not otherwise do) just to make someone happy.