[irishpipes]

LM, I hope you will consider stepping away from the internet. I can't imagine APhi added too many women via COB. You have posted all kinds of identifying information about your daughter. It wouldn't take much for your posts to come to the attention of the chapter, and for the chapter to figure out whose mom you are. I am sure you would feel terrible if your daughter's Greek experience was compromised because of your lack of online judgment. As you yourself have posted, UT is exceptionally competitive, so a chapter can't allow one of its own members (via her mother) to cause embarrassment or unwanted attention. Even your posts supporting your daughter's pledgeship are overbearing. I am glad that you are excited for your daughter, but you are unintentionally bringing discredit to Alpha Phi and your daughter could pay the price for that. I am sure you think everyone on here is just being mean to you, but I post this out of genuine concern.